The other day, I happened to read an
absurd ad-article, which was published on the first page of a prominent news
paper. The heading of article was ‘No Shave, No lipstick. It was written there
that more than 80% girls don’t like man with stubble or beard.
And these women have started a movement
which they are calling, ‘No Shave, No Lipstick Movement’. Many divas of
bollywood have associated themselves with this ‘No Shave, No Lipstick Movement,
they say that man look best when ‘clean-shaven’, and unless man shave daily,
they won’t wear lipstick.
I find this issue worth discussing, for I
feel, in today’s time where relationship between man and woman are hitting the
bottom rock every now and then, it would be worth while to make a conscious
effort to understand the complexity of the matter which is accountable for more
than 90% problems in the world.
Here, I would like to shed light on two
vital points, First, it might be shocking for you to know but, if you ask a
psychologist, they would say, women with this sort of mindset (where they like
well-groomed man), are either lesbian or sexually perverted, because knowingly
or unknowingly, their unconscious interest is in the women only, They are not
attracted in opposite sex, more or less, they are interested in the same sex.
There are woman whom you would find
behaving like man, they prefer to dress like man, and they chose the same
career option which men chose. And, in it’s enthusiasm to out perform men, they
adopt all kind of stupid things form man, they smoke, they drink and abuse. In
addition to all these, they even start feeling and thinking like man. And, in
long run, they become nothing but ‘A-Second-Grad-Man’. They think this पागलपन is growth, but, it is any thing but
growth. In fact, it is degradation.
Here, it will be helpful to know that,
difference between man and woman is not of quality but of quantity. No
man is absolutely man and vice versa. In every man something of woman exists
and so is the case with woman.
Second thing which I would like to bring to
notice is, its not that only women think that man look best when clean-shaven;
even most men (it would be right to call them Second-Grad-Woman) believe that
they look their best when clean-shaven, and start decorating themselves like
woman.
This is really a neurotic society; here a
woman is respected and accepted only when she becomes ‘Second-Grad-Man’. And
this ‘पागलपन’ is known as
women-emancipation-movement.
In a healthy society, woman would be
respect as woman; they would be loved and cared as they are. A woman should
grow as woman, because only then, she can flower, and have satisfaction in life.
Woman and man should look as different as
possible, but yes there should not be any discrimination, they both are
ultimate manifestation of nature, nobody is lesser or higher. In the name of
change, we are killing the beauty of life. No change is needed, only growth is
required. What we do in the name of change is, we shift prisoner from one jail
to another.
Healthy mind is attracted by opposite
only. Attraction is always between to opposite poles. Man and woman both are
beautiful; there is no need for a woman to be like man. Why should they…? What
is lacking in them….?
Last thing, who tells these ugly women to
color their lips with lipstick…... to have natural read-lips, is one thing, but
to color them with lipstick is sick, only sick woman does so.
At the end, I would like to repeat......, those women who are interested in
clean-shaven man are Lesbian, and those men who are interested in these
Second-Grad-Woman, are Gay..!